Lara Bracamonte Davila

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How to emotionally prepare for divorce

On Behalf of | May 10, 2022 | Family Law

Many couples may make the decision to divorce during the spring months. Just as important as preparing for property division, child custody, child support and other divorce-related concerns is knowing how to emotionally prepare for divorce.

Be prepared

There are several important considerations to keep in mind when emotionally preparing for divorce including:

  • Strategize around finances: It is likely that each spouse’s financial situation will change following the divorce. By accepting this, they can begin to plan for their financial future post-divorce and prioritize their interests for property division and other financial concerns that come up during divorce.
  • Be emotionally tuned in: It is important for parents to emotionally tune in to their children during the divorce process and to be empathetic with them. Divorce will be challenging emotionally for everyone involved and impacted by the divorce.
  • Allow yourself to grieve: A divorce is a form of loss and each spouse should allow themselves to emotionally grieve that loss.
  • Seek support: Divorce spouses may have a tendency to isolate themselves from their family and friends. During the divorce process, they will need to support of their social network and should seek the support and friends and family and the community resources they have built around them and have access to.

You are not alone

Divorce can be a difficult process but preparing for the various components of a divorce, including the emotional aspects of a divorce, can contribute to a smoother divorce process overall for the couple. This can lead to potentially better outcomes as the spouses move forward with their lives following their divorce.