In Texas, getting a divorce can be exhausting. You will generally have to make difficult decisions about your future, finances and children. While every divorce is unique, some common pitfalls could make an already-challenging situation even harder.
Hiding assets or income
It might be tempting to conceal money or property to protect your financial interests, but this approach could backfire. Texas law requires you and your spouse to exchange initial disclosures within 30 days after the first answer or general appearance is filed, unless you agree in writing to skip this step.
If you are caught hiding assets, you could face serious consequences. For example, the judge may award your spouse a larger share of your marital estate to make up for the missing assets. Consider being transparent about your finances, even if it feels uncomfortable.
“Venting” on social media
Posting details about your divorce or complaining about your spouse on social media may damage your case. What you share online could become evidence in court. Your spouse’s attorney might use your posts to challenge your honesty, dispute your financial statements or question your parenting abilities.
Think about reducing your social media use during the divorce process. If you choose to make a post, keep your content neutral and steer clear of topics related to your divorce, your finances or your spouse.
Using your children as messengers or leverage
If you and your spouse are struggling to communicate directly, you might have considered using your children to pass messages back and forth. However, this strategy could hurt your children emotionally and weaken your position in court.
Texas courts generally prioritize the best interests of children, and judges tend to look unfavorably on parents who put their kids in the middle of adult conflicts. Instead, consider keeping your children out of disputes. If you must communicate with your spouse, it may be best to contact them through appropriate channels.
Your next steps
Avoiding these common mistakes could help you navigate your divorce with fewer complications. By being aware of potential pitfalls in the divorce process, you may put yourself in a better position to protect your interests and start a new chapter in your life.