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Why pursuing divorce on your own is dangerous

On Behalf of | Jun 12, 2025 | Family Law

Whether your marriage is heading for divorce, or you need to modify an existing custody order, you might think that you and your spouse or your child’s other parent can work the matter out on your own. While some parties are able to do so on amicable terms and come to a favorable resolution, the risks associated with navigating this legal space on your own are significant.

What’s the problem with handling family law issues on your own?

There are several risks associated with DIY divorce and handling custody issues on your own. Here are some of them:

  • It can prove more costly when you have to constantly go back to court to re-address the legal issues that you thought were resolved.
  • The other party might pressure you into an outcome that doesn’t align with what you want.
  • You might fail to identify when your spouse is hiding assets from you.
  • You might miscalculate a request for alimony.
  • You could misunderstand the tax implications of your divorce and the resolution that you work out with your spouse.
  • You may end up with a vague child custody agreement that’s difficult to enforce and leads to conflict further down the road.
  • You could fail to adequately address parental relocation in your custody agreement.
  • You could be subjected to additional stress that could otherwise be avoided.

Make the most of the legal process to protect your and your child’s best interests

We understand the desire to save time and money by addressing legal issues on your own. But the risks of going it alone are simply too severe. So, if you want to know more about what a family law attorney can do for you in your situation, then please continue researching your options and reading up on the legal issues you’re confronting.